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You have with you at all times a tool that takes very little effort to use and yet has a magical effect on the people around you. It is your smile.
Who would you rather deal with?
Think for a moment about the people you deal with on a daily basis such as your family, your co-workers or your friends. Which are the ones you enjoy being with the most? Isn’t it generally those people who approach you with a smile on their face, who are cheerful and seem to be in a good mood?
Now think for a moment about those people with whom you must deal with who rarely smile. I’m talking about those people who always seem to have a scowl on their face. It’s not a pleasant experience to be with them, is it? Their mood rubs off on you. By nature you tend to resist these kinds of people. We don’t want to be around them.
Now the big question: Which kind of person are you? When you walk into a room does the room become brighter because of your glowing, cheerful smile? Or do you bring with you a dark cloud of gloom that overshadows everyone else?
How is your smile?
You may not even realize which kind of person you are. You may think you have a pleasant, cheerful countenance and have just the opposite. I found this out the hard way about me! We had just returned from a family vacation and were watching our home videos of it. I was surprised that in nearly every shot of me I had what looked like a scowl on my face. I remember thinking to myself, “Is that how I normally look to other people?” I have been working since then to consciously smile more.
I read this little verse recently and thought I would share it with you. It goes like this:
It costs nothing, but creates much.
It enriches those who receive
without impoverishing those who give.
It happens in a flash,
and the memory of it sometimes lasts forever.
None are so rich they can get along without it,
and none are so poor but are richer for its benefits.
It creates happiness in the home,
fosters goodwill in a business,
and is the countersign of friends.
It is rest to the weary,
daylight to the discouraged,
sunshine to the sad,
and nature’s best antidote for trouble.
Yet it cannot be bought, begged, borrowed or stolen,
for it is something that is no earthly good to anyone
until it is given away.
And if in the course of the day some of your friends
should be too tired to give you a smile,
why don’t you give them one of yours?
For nobody needs a smile so much
as those who have none left to give!
– Author Unknown
What is the power of a smile?
A genuine smile has the power to put others at ease. It can cheer their day and lighten their burdens. It can help you connect with others. A smile can be contagious and change the whole feeling and mood of a room full of people. A smile not only benefits the recipient but also the originator. A smile simply makes you look better. It is an instant facelift. A great smile automatically draws people to you. There is truth in the saying:
“A smile is a little curve that sets a lot of things straight.”
I challenge you to be more conscious of your smile. When you are having a good time, be sure to tell your face! Your smile is your welcome mat. Make sure it is inviting. Use the magic power of your smile.