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		<title>Enemies of Self-Mastery &#8211; Too Little and Too Much</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Sep 2009 07:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Garold N. Larson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The goal of self-mastery is a noble one. Yet every day people&#8217;s efforts are thwarted because they fall victim to the enemies of self-mastery: Too Little and Too Much. As you work towards mastering your mind, mastering your body, mastering your money and mastering your relationships, nearly all failures can be traced back to the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a title="Too Much" href="http://larsoninstitute.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/01/too-much.jpg"><img class="alignleft" style="width: 343px; height: 228px;" title="Too Much" src="http://larsoninstitute.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/01/too-much.jpg" alt="Too Much" width="343" height="228" align="left" /></a>The goal of self-mastery is a noble one. Yet every day people&#8217;s efforts are thwarted because they fall victim to the enemies of self-mastery: <strong><em>Too Little and Too Much</em></strong>. As you work towards mastering your mind, mastering your body, mastering your money and mastering your relationships, nearly all failures can be traced back to the problem of too little and too much.</p>
<p>What do I mean by that? Let me explain by using some examples.</p>
<p><strong>Mastering Your Body</strong></p>
<p>First let&#8217;s talk about mastering your body. When you think about the struggles that people have with their health and with their physical body, most of them have to do with too little and too much.</p>
<p>Of course the obvious one is too much food. There is no arguing the fact that America is suffering from an obesity problem. We eat too much. We tend to overindulge and eat far too much than we need. When you go to a restaurant and order a dinner they generally bring out enough food for two people. The portions are huge and we feel that, in order to get our money&#8217;s worth, we need to eat the whole thing. A number of times my wife and I have ordered one meal and split it between the both of us and we have left the restaurant full. There have been a number of other times when we wish we would have done that because we ended up with far too much food and left the restaurant feeling stuffed and sick to our stomachs.</p>
<p>It was an interesting phenomenon when I took my family to visit China for a couple of weeks. We noticed there were no obese people. We just didn&#8217;t see any fat people in China. The people weren&#8217;t starving. There wasn&#8217;t poverty. These were regular people and they were healthy. They were thin because they ate mostly vegetables and rice and they walked or rode bikes wherever they went. So you just didn&#8217;t see overweight people. It was quite shocking to come back to America and see how many overweight people there were. When you are around it all the time you don&#8217;t notice it so much but when you&#8217;ve been gone for a while and then come back &#8211; wow! There are a lot of grossly overweight people in America. We eat too much!<span id="more-44"></span></p>
<p>Let&#8217;s talk about &#8220;Too Little&#8221; with regards to our body. The problem is too little exercise. We don&#8217;t get up and move around. If I didn&#8217;t consciously make an effort every morning to get up and go hiking I wouldn&#8217;t get any exercise at all. I spend most of my days sitting at a computer, not moving much at all. I think of how many other people are in that same situation where they live a sedentary lifestyle. We walk a short distance to our car and drive everywhere we go. We would drive to the bathroom if the car would fit! We come home and sit in front of the TV or computer or Xbox. We just don&#8217;t do a lot. So we exercise too little!</p>
<p>Another area, as far as mastering our body goes, is in the area of sleep. I&#8217;ve noticed that this is an area that teenagers struggle with. I am familiar with a lot of youth in my neighborhood and work closely with them in a number of ways. I&#8217;m very familiar with their lifestyles. What I observe is that rarely are these youth on any kind of normal sleep schedule. It&#8217;s usually staying up way too late and existing on very little sleep and then binging on the weekends by oversleeping. They try to make up for the lost sleep during the week where they stay up until two or three or four in the morning playing video games and watching movies. Too little and too much.</p>
<p><strong>Mastering Your Mind</strong></p>
<p>As far as mastering our minds, what are the areas of too much and too little? I would say we have too much mental stimulation of worthless and useless things. We are bombarded with audio and visual stimulation through every imaginable means. It&#8217;s hard to find a young person now that doesn&#8217;t have a cell phone in one hand and an iPod in the other, with ear buds in their ears while watching a movie on their 120&#8243; flat screen TV. Add to this the internet and video games and it equals too much mental stimulation. It&#8217;s like drinking a Rock Star energy drink &#8211; lots of stimulation but very little nourishment.</p>
<p>The too little part is too little time spent in actual thought. Too little time spent allowing our mind to be creative, allowing our mind to come up with our own ideas and thinking on our own. There is too little pondering, contemplating and studying worthwhile, thought-provoking and important information.</p>
<p><strong>Mastering Your Money</strong></p>
<p>What about mastering your money? I see a great imbalance in many people&#8217;s lives. They indulge too much on luxuries, toys, trinkets and time-wasters. Many feel they have to have the best of certain things whether they can afford it or not. They plunge themselves into too much debt which produces too much financial strain, tension and worry.</p>
<p>In the area of too little, these same people tend to put too little into savings. Too little is spent on investing. Too little of their money is contributed to society to help other people. They spend too little in supporting and caring for their family. Too little is spent on educating their minds.</p>
<p><strong>Mastering Your Relationships</strong></p>
<p>How about mastering relationships? I would say too much criticism goes on &#8211; too much correcting, nagging, forcing and pushing of other people. The normal result is the resistance of the person being pushed and the damaging of the relationship. The end result is usually the exact opposite of what their desired outcome was in the first place.</p>
<p>As far as relationships go, there is too little patience and too little love. There is too little of sitting down with the other person and just asking how their day was, of asking about their interests and what is going on in their life. There is too little of being interested in the other person, of caring about them and focusing attention on them. Too little of finding out what is going on in their head and trying to understand them.</p>
<p><strong>Achieving Balance</strong></p>
<p>I could go on and about too little and too much. The world is full of too little and too much. The goal is to be aware of the areas in your own life that are experiencing too little or too much and to work toward achieving balance. Balance means being steady and stable. It means not being too excessive or too restrictive but achieving true symmetry and stability in your life.</p>
<p>Thank you.</p>
<p><strong><em>Master Yourself, Master Your Life</em></strong></p>
<p>Copyright © 2009 Garold N. Larson</p>
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		<title>Credit Cards &#8211; You Can Leave Home Without Them</title>
		<link>http://larsoninstitute.com/2009/08/26/credit-cards-you-can-leave-home-without-them/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 21:23:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Garold N. Larson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[ Is it possible to survive in today’s world without a credit card? The answer I get from most people is that it can’t be done. To do anything these days requires a credit card, it seems. If you want to make purchases on the Internet you have to have a credit card. You can’t [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://larsoninstitute.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/credit-card-trap.jpg"><img style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-bottom: 0px" src="http://larsoninstitute.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/credit-card-trap-thumb.jpg" border="0" alt="credit-card-trap" width="305" height="220" align="right" /></a> Is it possible to survive in today’s world without a credit card? The answer I get from most people is that it can’t be done. To do anything these days requires a credit card, it seems. If you want to make purchases on the Internet you have to have a credit card. You can’t reserve a hotel or buy plane tickets without a credit card. Most people use them now to buy gas. Fast food restaurants take them along with movie theatres, the post office and grocery stores. It seems everybody takes credit cards. So it would seem that you really do need a credit card to survive in today’s world.</p>
<p>The only problem with that statement is that it’s dead wrong. I have never owned a credit card in my life and I don’t plan on owning one. When I tell people I have booked airline flights, booked hotels, traveled to China and Sweden and other countries, gone on cruises and purchased all kinds of things over the Internet without a credit card they say, “You’re lying!”<span id="more-620"></span></p>
<p>I tell them, “No, I’m not lying. I function just fine without a credit card.” I thank Sears, Roebuck and Company for turning me down for a credit card over twenty years ago. I bless that day. I have never looked back since.</p>
<p>Yes, I admit it. I use plastic. I use a card that has the Visa symbol on it. But guess what, it’s not a credit card. It’s a checking card. It’s like a debit card on steroids because I can use it as a debit card when I want or I can use it LIKE a credit card when I want. It is accepted anywhere a credit card is accepted. So I can make purchases online. I can make hotel reservations with it – no problem. And yes, the money comes right out of my checking account as if I wrote a check. It forces me to only spend money that I actually have. What a concept!</p>
<p>I had one person say to me, “Now how can you do that? You don’t keep a $5,000 balance in your checking account, do you?” I had to say, “Well, actually I do.” (It’s in reality much more than $5,000.) I’m not trying brag or anything. It’s just that my wife and I work very hard to have a decent cash reserve. We only spend money that we have.</p>
<p>So, I truly get a kick out of telling people you don’t need a credit card and that I’ve never owned one. They really do find it hard to believe but let me tell you, it’s a great way to go.</p>
<p>I could go on and on for another entire article and talk about the perils of credit cards and how stupid it is to own one. So don’t get me started on that today.</p>
<p><a href="http://larsoninstitute.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/cutup.jpg"><img style="border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-bottom: 0px" src="http://larsoninstitute.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/cutup-thumb.jpg" border="0" alt="cutup" width="212" height="276" align="left" /></a>I know a person whose take-home pay is around $1,500 per month. He has racked up in credit cards and other debt over $26,000. His minimum monthly payment to service his debt is around $750 a month. When you take $750 out of $1,500, that doesn’t leave much to live on, and in fact you can’t live on that. Because of high interest rates he will never pay off his debt by just making the minimum monthly payment. What a shame that he has gotten himself into that situation through debt accumulated primarily through credit cards.</p>
<p>So my message today is: You do not have to have a credit card. Live within your means. You will be so much further ahead in the long run. It has enabled me and my wife to live totally debt free. Our home is paid off. Our cars are paid off. I’m not trying to boast. I’m just like anybody else. I’m just trying to show that you can exist in today’s world without a credit card. Cut up your credit cards. Cancel your accounts. Do whatever you need to do. I am living proof you CAN leave home without it.</p>
<p><strong><em>Living without debt and loving it!</em></strong></p>
<p>Thank you.</p>
<p>Copyright © 2009 Garold N. Larson</p>
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		<title>Is it Best to Buy the Best?</title>
		<link>http://larsoninstitute.com/2009/01/09/the-daily-hike-is-it-best-to-always-buy-the-best/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jan 2009 08:31:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Garold N. Larson</dc:creator>
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Good morning. I went golfing a while ago with a friend who I know doesn&#8217;t earn a lot of money, yet he had a $500 golf set. His driver alone cost over $150. I asked him how many times a year he golfed and he said only once or twice. Once or twice! And yet [...]]]></description>
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<p>Good morning. I went golfing a while ago with a friend who I know doesn&#8217;t earn a lot of money, yet he had a $500 golf set. His driver alone cost over $150. I asked him how many times a year he golfed and he said only once or twice. Once or twice! And yet he thinks he needs to have a top of the line golf set. I mean, come on, if you&#8217;re golfing once or twice a year I would think a decent $200 golf set would do just fine.</p>
<p>I have come across a number of people with this same trait. They think they need to have <strong>&#8220;The Best&#8221;.</strong> There is nothing inherently wrong with that except these are people that can&#8217;t pay their bills each month. Their money picture is all out of balance, meaning, in some areas they are lacking and other areas they have too much. Their house is falling apart or they can&#8217;t afford to pay their bills and yet they&#8217;ll go out and buy an item and it will be the top of the line or the biggest or the best and of course the most expensive.</p>
<p>Another example is an individual I know who is struggling with money. She went out and bought a brand new $700 computer. Now a $700 computer may not seem like such a big deal to most of you, but I know for a fact that you can purchase a great computer for around $400. I recently got one for my family and it works great and is very powerful. I don&#8217;t know what she got for the extra $300 but I guarantee you she doesn&#8217;t need it. All she is using her computer for is to access the internet and do simple word processing. But for some reason she was compelled to get <strong>&#8220;The Best.&#8221;<span id="more-95"></span></strong></p>
<p>Its purchases like that that baffle me sometimes. Whether it&#8217;s a computer or clothes or a car or a camera &#8211; if you&#8217;ve got the money then go ahead and get the best. But if you don&#8217;t have the money you shouldn&#8217;t be buying top of the line items.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve never bought a brand new car in my life and I don&#8217;t know if I ever will. You can buy great used vehicles for a fraction of the cost of new ones. I pay cash. I don&#8217;t go into debt. The car I drive right now is a great car and it didn&#8217;t cost much at all. It has all the luxury features, all the bells and whistles, and I&#8217;m very happy with it. Mostly I&#8217;m happy because it didn&#8217;t cost me a dime in interest. I paid for it with a check. It&#8217;s a fraction of the cost that many people, who make less money than me, spend on their brand new cars. I can then take that extra money and do fun things like go on a cruise with my wife, which is what I&#8217;m doing next week. I would much rather use the money for other things than sinking it into a vehicle or an expensive computer.</p>
<p>The point I&#8217;m trying to make is this: If you have the money, great. I don&#8217;t have a big problem with you having nice things or even the best things. I do have a problem if you buy those things when you can&#8217;t afford it. If you&#8217;re struggling and you can barely buy food or clothes for your kids then why do stupid things like buy an expensive car or an expensive computer or an expensive camera that you don&#8217;t need? Why do you think you have to have<strong> &#8220;The Best?&#8221;</strong> You can get along fine with good quality things. You can be perfectly happy and content <strong><em>without</em></strong> the 72&#8243; big-screen TV &#8211; really! Many people do.</p>
<p>The next time you feel compelled to purchase <strong>&#8220;The Best,&#8221;</strong> stop and think. Why are you buying it? Are there cheaper models that will do just fine? Can you purchase it used? Can you skip the purchase altogether? Be wise. Think before spending. The <strong><em>best</em></strong> may end up not being the <strong><em>best</em></strong> after all.</p>
<p>Thank you.</p>
<p><strong><em>Master Yourself, Master Your Life</em></strong></p>
<p>Copyright © 2009 Garold N. Larson</p>
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		<title>Myths of Money and Happiness</title>
		<link>http://larsoninstitute.com/2008/11/22/myths-of-money-and-happiness/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Nov 2008 08:47:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Garold N. Larson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The myths of money and happiness are many. The general feeling in today&#8217;s society is that more money and things will make us happier. Because of this belief we tend to focus our time and efforts on acquiring more and more &#8220;stuff&#8221; to the point where we sometimes overextend our finances and resources and in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The myths of money and happiness are many. The general feeling in today&#8217;s society is that more money and things will make us happier. Because of this belief we tend to focus our time and efforts on acquiring more and more &#8220;stuff&#8221; to the point where we sometimes overextend our finances and resources and in the end achieve exactly the opposite result we intended.</p>
<p><strong>Affluenza Epidemic</strong></p>
<p><a title="Rich Man" href="http://larsoninstitute.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/10/richman.GIF"><img style="width: 142px; height: 104px;" title="Rich Man" src="http://larsoninstitute.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/10/richman.GIF" alt="Rich Man" width="142" height="104" align="left" /></a>A recent book gave a name to this affliction and in fact is the name of the book. It is entitled <strong><em>Affluenza</em></strong>. In the book affluenza is defined as &#8220;a painful, contagious, socially-transmitted condition of overload, debt, anxiety and waste resulting from the dogged pursuit of more.&#8221; The book reported that Americans each spend more than $21,000 per year on consumer goods. Our average rate of saving has fallen from about 10 percent of our income in 1980 to zero today. Our credit card indebtedness has tripled in the 1990s and currently equals $2,293 in credit card debt for every man, woman and child in the United States. More people are filing for bankruptcy each year than graduate from college.</p>
<p>Many of us do very well with our finances and manage to stay out of debt and live within our means. However, there are too many that have fallen victim to the affliction of <strong>affluenza.</strong></p>
<p><strong>What is the True Source of Happiness?</strong></p>
<p>Let&#8217;s think for a moment about happiness and where it comes from. First I want to do a little test to see how well your happiness prediction abilities are working. I want to present two different futures for you to contemplate and think about and then decide which one you would prefer.</p>
<p>The <strong>first</strong> one is of you <strong>winning the lottery</strong> to the tune of $100 million.</p>
<p>The <strong>second</strong> one is of you <strong>becoming a paraplegic</strong> &#8211; of losing the use of your legs and being confined to a wheelchair.</p>
<p>So which future would you choose? You may think that is kind of a stupid question. Of course you would choose winning the lottery &#8211; who wouldn&#8217;t? A person who wins the lottery would be so much happier than someone becoming a paraplegic. Right?</p>
<p>Strange as it may seem they have actually done studies on these two groups of people. They studied how happy they were one year later after either winning the lottery or of becoming a paraplegic. The fact is that one year later lottery winners and paraplegics are equally as happy with their lives. There is absolutely no difference in their level of happiness.</p>
<p>When I asked a number of people I know where they felt true happiness came from they, mentioned their families, serving others, doing what&#8217;s right, being out among nature, and someone even said living within your means. So happiness isn&#8217;t found in more and better things. It&#8217;s mostly found in the things of life that are entirely free.</p>
<p>Jesus Christ made this statement:</p>
<blockquote><p>Beware of covetousness, for a man&#8217;s life consisteth not in the abundance of the things which he possesseth. (Luke 12:15)</p></blockquote>
<p><strong>Misery of Debt</strong></p>
<p>When my wife and I were first married I tried to start my own business. After a year of trying to make a go of it we found ourselves deep in debt and behind on all of our bills. It was a horrible experience for us. Every time the phone rang we would hate to answer it for fear it would be a collection agency calling. We had had enough and finally decided we would do everything we could to pay everyone back and get completely out of debt.</p>
<p>We liquidated the business and I got a job making $4.25 an hour. For the next year all of my paychecks went to paying off debts. We lived like church mice. I drove a $250 car. We cancelled our phone. During the winter we heated only one room of our little rental house. There were times when it got so cold that the water in the toilet would literally freeze. It was a long and difficult year that we spent getting out of debt. But it was a glorious day when the last payment was made and we were completely free of financial bondage. It was a hard lesson to learn but we did learn! Today, my dear wife and I are completely debt free and love every minute of it!</p>
<p>Heber J. Grant said:</p>
<blockquote><p>If there is any one thing that will bring peace and contentment into the human heart, and into the family, it is to live within our means. And if there is any one thing that is grinding and discouraging and disheartening, it is to have debts and obligations that one cannot meet.</p></blockquote>
<p><strong>Live Within Your Means</strong></p>
<p>What I&#8217;m about to say is going to sound old fashioned and out of style. But I know the value of it because I have lived it and know it is true.</p>
<p>I urge each of you to honestly examine your own financial circumstances and determine now to live within your means. Prepare now for the future. Be modest in your expenditures. Save for those things you feel you need. Pay off debts as quickly as you can. Begin saving a little money on a regular basis. I promise you that if you will follow this counsel you will feel more secure and experience greater peace and happiness in your life.</p>
<p>Thank you.</p>
<p>Copyright © 2008 Garold N. Larson</p>
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		<title>Ownership is Bondage</title>
		<link>http://larsoninstitute.com/2008/11/12/ownership-is-bondage/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2008 08:32:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Garold N. Larson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Slavery: Alive and Well in America
They say that slavery was abolished after the Civil War. But I say that slavery is alive and well in America today. Who are these slaves? What do they look like and where do they live? Most important of all, are you one of them?
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<p>They say that slavery was abolished after the Civil War. But I say that slavery is alive and well in America today. Who are these slaves? What do they look like and where do they live? Most important of all, are you one of them?</p>
<p>Today I&#8217;m going to explore the idea that <strong><em>Ownership is Bondage</em></strong>. Many of us have become slaves - slaves to our stuff. We think we are wealthy and free when we own a lot of stuff. My contention is that just the opposite is true. Our stuff owns us! We become slaves to our stuff. Ownership is not freedom. Ownership is Bondage!<span id="more-72"></span></p>
<p><strong>What is Slavery?</strong></p>
<p>What is slavery anyway? Slavery is being under the control of another person or thing. It is having your liberty taken away. It is being in bondage. It is being dictated how you should spend your time and money. It is taking away your ability to make choices and the freedom to do the things you wish to do. It is the suppression of the human will. That&#8217;s what slavery is.</p>
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<p>Many years ago the slave ships sailed to the coasts of Africa where the slave traders ran through the jungles capturing the natives, binding them in chains, and forcing them into servitude. Today we are pursued on TV, the radio, and in the newspapers. The slave traders come at us from every direction, luring us with their bait &#8211; stuff! And guess what, we willingly put our hands and feet in the shackles and count it a great privilege to do so.</p>
<p>You think I&#8217;m joking! &#8220;Surely this can&#8217;t be true,&#8221; you say. Let me illustrate:</p>
<p><strong>Of Slavery and Bondage &#8211; Lake Powell</strong></p>
<p>I have a neighbor who is very wealthy. We&#8217;re talking millions of dollars here. This person has a huge home. It is so big that when they built it I thought they were building an apartment complex. The family owns a lot of things; boats and snowmobiles and many other fun things.</p>
<p>One thing they own is a houseboat on Lake Powell. I had the opportunity several years ago to be invited with a group of young people to spend a few days at Lake Powell on their houseboat. This wasn&#8217;t just any houseboat, but a huge beautiful houseboat. Not only was there a houseboat but a water ski boat and several jet skis.</p>
<p>During the several days we were there I had the opportunity to observe this friend of mine, the one who owned it all. When we got to Lake Powell the houseboat wouldn&#8217;t start. The batteries were dead. So my friend had to make a number of phone calls to get the right people there to take care of the problem.</p>
<p>Finally he got the houseboat started and we got it out to the beach where we were to stay the few days we were there. He got everyone together and gave out a long list of rules about the usage of his things. Now it was very generous of him to let us all come on this trip and use his houseboat and ski boat and jet skis. But I noticed that he was stressed the whole time we were there, worrying about every little thing.</p>
<p>The teenagers would take these jet skis out on the lake and when they would come back they would come right up to shore and my friend would yell at them and tell them to get away from the sand, watch out for the rocks, don&#8217;t suck sand into the engine and on and on. He pretty much chewed them out for not taking proper care of his things. One of the jet skis quit working so he had to tow it in to the shop at the marina so it could be fixed.</p>
<p>Literally the whole time we were there he was dealing with one issue and problem after another. To watch this friend of mine and what he went through on that trip was very interesting to me. He seemed like he was stressed the whole time dealing with all the problems and issues related to his stuff. Honestly, he couldn&#8217;t have had any fun!</p>
<p><strong>Of Slavery and Bondage &#8211; The Cabin</strong></p>
<p>I have another friend whose family decided it would be a great thing to own a cabin. So they bought a cabin up in the mountains. It&#8217;s two or three hours away from where they live. I suppose it&#8217;s a great thing to have a cabin but what I&#8217;ve noticed is that he&#8217;s never around. Whenever I ask his wife where he is she always tells me he&#8217;s up at the cabin. Either he&#8217;s fixing the plumbing or painting or doing some other repairs. He&#8217;s constantly up there working on that cabin. I wouldn&#8217;t be surprised if he spends more time working on that cabin than he spends enjoying it! I think to myself, &#8220;For Pete&#8217;s sake, you can rent a cabin and then when you&#8217;re done you give the keys back and you don&#8217;t have to deal with it any more.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Of Slavery and Bondage &#8211; The Swimming Pool</strong></p>
<p>Well let&#8217;s not leave me out of the bad example section. I remember a few years ago when my kids were young and we were at the store. I saw one of those do-it-yourself swimming pools that you set up in your back yard. You&#8217;ve probably seen them, the kind that are three feet high and fifteen feet in diameter. My wife and I looked at the pool and thought, you know, for a $150 it would be great to have a swimming pool in the back yard. You could come home from work and go out there and take a dip in the pool. The kids could have so much fun. So we splurged and bought the $150 pool.</p>
<p>I remember we bought the pool on a Saturday afternoon. We thought we would just go home and set up the pool and be swimming by that evening and it would be great. So we get home and take the pool out of the box and spread out all the parts. We start going through the instructions and begin to realize that, &#8220;Wow, this thing is going to be really difficult to put up!&#8221;</p>
<p>First of all you have to have an exactly level ground, fifteen feet in diameter. I also didn&#8217;t realize that you can&#8217;t just set it up on the lawn. You have to dig out the grass and create this huge hole that is perfectly level. It took me hours and hours to dig out the sod and dig the dirt out to make it level.</p>
<p>Then there were so many pieces to that pool! After hours of work I finally had the pool set up. It was 9:00 o&#8217;clock at night. Now I had to fill the pool with water. I had all my garden hoses going and it still took forever to fill it. Of course we didn&#8217;t get to swim in it that day.</p>
<p>So we get the pool set up and filled with water and finally we can swim in it. That lasts for about a day. Guess what, you don&#8217;t just fill it up and swim for the rest of the summer. No way! Now you have to maintain the thing. It takes about 10 minutes of kids swimming in it before the thing is filthy with grass and dirt and leaves.</p>
<p>Now we get to buy filters and chemicals for the constant battle to keep it clean! Now who do you think gets to take care of that pool? That&#8217;s right, me! I&#8217;m the one who had to test the chlorination and the PH balance every day. I was amazed at how fast that pool would turn green and the moss would begin growing. It was horrible to maintain. I had to buy a special pool vacuum that you hook to your garden hose to suck up all the leaves. We had to buy a pool cover to keep all the leaves from flying in. We had to buy a special solar blanket to heat the water. When the kids ripped the liner we had to buy a new one for $50.00. We had to constantly buy more chemicals and filters. Finally the pool would get so bad that you just couldn&#8217;t clean the water anymore. So I had to drain the whole thing, scrub it all out, refill it with water, and put more chemicals in.</p>
<p>Do you think that I ever got to swim in that thing? Hah, hardly ever! The kids swam in it all the time. My time was always spent taking care of the pool. It was a nightmare! It got to be where I hated that swimming pool. Yes, I swam in it a few times and it was fun, but boy, was it worth it? How cheap is it to get a season pass at the local swimming pool or the local water park and let someone else deal with all that?</p>
<p><strong>Of Freedom and Independence &#8211; Simple Wealth</strong></p>
<p>I have another friend I would like to tell you about. This other friend has an equally large amount of money as the first person I told you about. But this friend has chosen a different lifestyle. To look at his house, his car and the way he lives, you would never know that he was wealthy. He has a nice, beautiful home, but it&#8217;s a normal size. It&#8217;s a regular home just like everyone else along his street. He drives a seven-year-old car. He could literally drive any car in existence and pay cash and yet he chooses to drive this vehicle because he&#8217;s content. He doesn&#8217;t need anything more. He&#8217;s not out to show anybody anything.</p>
<p>What he has is freedom. He doesn&#8217;t own tons of things such as the boats and toys that other people have to deal with. He lives a simple life. Yet he has the freedom to go and do what he pleases. I also know, and am one of the few people who know, that he has helped numerous people and family members by doing simple little charity acts like paying off the mortgage on their homes. He gets great satisfaction by doing these kinds of things. He also gets great satisfaction out of living a simple life because what it gives him is freedom.</p>
<p><strong>Of Freedom and Independence &#8211; The Simple Life</strong></p>
<p>Now I&#8217;m not an enormously wealthy person. I don&#8217;t have millions of dollars in the bank. But I also have chosen to live a simple lifestyle and have chosen to live well below my means. I&#8217;ve been able to get to the point of being completely out of debt. My home is paid off. I own nothing on my vehicles. In fact I don&#8217;t owe anybody anything. Everything I have I own free and clear. There is a very satisfying feeling to that. It&#8217;s a feeling of freedom. If I were to lose my source of income tomorrow I could live for a long time because I don&#8217;t have many expenses. I don&#8217;t have the latest and greatest of everything and I don&#8217;t need it. The cars I have are a number of years old but they are great. They are nice looking. They start up and take me where I want to go in comfort. They have power windows. They have air conditioning. They have CD players. Really, what more do you need?</p>
<p>Living simply has given me the freedom to take my wife and family many places and experience many things.</p>
<p><strong>What You Own, Owns You</strong></p>
<p>When you start to think about the stuff you own, ask yourself this question, &#8220;Do you own it or does it own YOU?&#8221; You&#8217;ve perhaps heard of the term &#8220;golden handcuffs.&#8221; I think it might apply here.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s use the example of owning a boat. First of all, once you own a boat you feel obligated to use it. You paid all that money for it and now you have to get your money&#8217;s worth out of it. So every vacation now has to be a boating vacation.</p>
<p>Then you have to store the boat. You either have to park it right in front of your house in the driveway or pour a big cement pad on the side of your house to park it or you keep it in a storage unit somewhere.</p>
<p>Then you have to register it every year and you also have to insure it. Whenever you use the boat you have to pay the marina fees to launch it at the lake. Then is consumes a huge amount of fuel. Then when you&#8217;re done you have to obsessively wash the boat. Haven&#8217;t you noticed that with boat owners? Every boat owner I know seems to be obsessed with wiping every water spot off their boat and shining it up.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s often been said that the two happiest days of a person&#8217;s life are the day they bought their boat and the day they sold it.</p>
<p><strong>Of Human Bondage</strong></p>
<p>I have a very wealthy aunt and uncle who have an abundance of possessions. They have homes and condos all over the place. They own a number of businesses. They have very nice cars and motor homes. Lots of stuff! One day my uncle took me aside and said to me, &#8220;You know Gary, I would love to just sell everything I have and live in a small home and not have to deal with it all.&#8221; What an interesting and telling comment from a very wealthy person. I remember when he told me that I was thinking, &#8220;Is this what being wealthy is all about?&#8221; What a pain!</p>
<p><strong>Can We Still Have Fun?</strong></p>
<p>So what does this all mean? Can we still have fun? Can we still go boating or are we supposed to live a frugal, meager life? Let&#8217;s address these questions.</p>
<p>Yes, you can still have fun. You can still go boating. You can still go to Lake Powell. You can still go water skiing. You can still enjoy the fun things of life. You just don&#8217;t have to own them! Here&#8217;s an example of what you can do:</p>
<p>For my wife&#8217;s 40th birthday we decided we were going to go to the lake and go boating. So for about $150.00 I rented two jet skies. We went and picked them up. I signed some papers and off we went to the lake. We had a day of fun. We rode them all day. When we were done we filled them up with gas, wiped them down a bit, took them back to the rental place and handed them the keys and we were done! Maybe $150.00 sounds like a lot of money for one day but I don&#8217;t have to store those things. I don&#8217;t have to insure them. I don&#8217;t have to maintain them. And I don&#8217;t have to feel obligated to go boating all the time to justify the enormous cost of buying the dumb things! I return them and I&#8217;m done with it. Somebody else can store them and maintain them.</p>
<p>So for my next outing I may want to rent a water-ski boat, or 4-wheelers or snowmobiles or a motor home or a cabin. You can rent all these things! And when you are done you just hand over the keys and someone else has to deal with it. So, yes, you can still have fun but without all the hassle.</p>
<p><strong>Imagine a Life…</strong></p>
<p>Imagine a life where you live simply, where you don&#8217;t owe anything to anyone, where you don&#8217;t have huge amounts of stuff to take care of. Imagine a life where you can come and go as you please. Imagine having the freedom to pay cash for things. Imagine the freedom <strong><em>from</em></strong> storing, fixing, insuring, registering and keeping track of loads of stuff. Imagine leaving a smaller footprint on this precious planet of ours.</p>
<p><strong>Treasures on Earth, Treasures in Heaven</strong></p>
<p>Let us be mindful about what we have set our hearts on. Let us be careful of how closely we get tied to the things we own. Are they so important? It&#8217;s nice to have a home and I really love the home I&#8217;m in, but we have to be careful that we don&#8217;t get so tied to things that they become a part of us. We aren&#8217;t our things. They are just things.</p>
<p>Someday we are going to die and somebody else is going to be living in that house and somebody else is going to be driving that car and it&#8217;s not going to matter. What matters is what kind of legacy you have left in this life. What have you done to make this world a better place? The purpose of this life is not to amass great amounts of stuff.</p>
<p>There is a story in the Bible that tells it best. It is found in Luke, chapter 12:</p>
<blockquote><p>15 And he said unto them, Take heed, and beware of covetousness: for a man&#8217;s life consisteth not in the abundance of the things which he possesseth.<br />
16 And he spake a parable unto them, saying, The ground of a certain rich man brought forth plentifully:<br />
17 And he thought within himself, saying, What shall I do, because I have no room where to bestow my fruits?<br />
18 And he said, This will I do: I will pull down my barns, and build greater; and there will I bestow all my fruits and my goods.<br />
19 And I will say to my soul, Soul, thou hast much goods laid up for many years; take thine ease, eat, drink, and be merry.<br />
20 But God said unto him, Thou fool, this night thy soul shall be required of thee: then whose shall those things be, which thou hast provided?<br />
21 So is he that layeth up treasure for himself, and is not rich toward God.</p></blockquote>
<p>So what is the meaning of this life? Is it to amass possessions? I don&#8217;t think so. I think about Hurricane Katrina and other disasters that have occurred over the last few years. Invariably they will interview someone on the news who has lost everything, and yet they will say, <em>&#8220;I&#8217;m so blessed because I&#8217;ve got my family. My family was safe and everyone was accounted for. We can build another house, we can buy another car, but all that matters is that I&#8217;ve got my family.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>When all is said and done it&#8217;s your family and the people you love that matter, not the things you own. Don&#8217;t become a slave to your stuff. Remember, ownership is not freedom. Ownership is Bondage!</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">What do you think about this post? Have you been caught in the ownership trap? Any thoughts or stories from your own experience? We&#8217;d love to hear from you. Talk to us in the comments. </span></strong></p>
<p>Thank you.</p>
<p><strong><em>Master Yourself, Master Your Life</em></strong></p>
<p>Copyright © 2008 Garold N. Larson</p>
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