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		<title>An Overpowering Mission in Life</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><a href="http://larsoninstitute.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/amazing-roads-8.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1452" title="amazing-roads-8" src="http://larsoninstitute.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/amazing-roads-8.jpg" alt="" width="537" height="371" /></a>One of the greatest tragedies in this world are those who fail to find and achieve their purpose or mission in life. This article will help you discover what your mission in life is. </strong></p>
<p>A number of years ago I took my family to ride an old-time train powered by a massive steam engine. Before that train could move, the water temperature in the boiler had to reach two hundred and twelve degrees. Water will not generate steam at two hundred degrees. Even two hundred and ten degrees will not create the steam to move a train. For water to boil and steam to be generated it must reach the temperature of two hundred and twelve degrees. Lukewarm water will not move anything.</p>
<p>I believe the vast majority of people in life are like the train trying to move with lukewarm water &#8211; almost boiling but never quite there. They wonder why their life is stalled, why they never seem to be able to move forward. They work hard but success seems to elude them.</p>
<p>The temperature difference between water that is boiling and water that is not is only a degree or two but the difference in results can be dramatic. In the same sense the difference between a person with an overpowering mission in life and someone who is merely living life can seem small but the results are without comparison.</p>
<p><strong>Achievers have an overpowering mission<br />
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One of the greatest tragedies in this world are those who fail to find and achieve their purpose or mission in life. The world is full of those whose daily existence is simply working for the weekend, plugging along until retirement or simply wondering whether they are in the right place doing the right thing. They know deep down inside that something is missing, that they are not doing what they do best. We each have only one life to live. How terrible it would be to come to the end of your life and realize you did not live to your fullest God-given potential.<span id="more-94"></span></p>
<p>The greatest achievements in this world have all been made by people with an overpowering mission. Like the steam that drives a locomotive, an overpowering mission drives every life of achievement. Think about every person of great accomplishment that you know of. Is it not true that each one had an overpowering mission?</p>
<p>Can you imagine Michael Jordan, Steven Spielberg, Mother Teresa, Christopher Columbus, Thomas Edison, Orville and Wilbur Wright, Mozart, or Henry Ford simply working for retirement, checking off the days on their calendars for when they can sit back and relax and watch TV? Ludicrous to even think about! No, these people were driven like a screaming locomotive. They each had an overpowering mission and there was no stopping them.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;The world always steps aside for people who know where they&#8217;re going.&#8221;<br />
</em>- Miriam Viola Larsen</p>
<p><strong>What is an overpowering mission in life?<br />
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Call it a quest, a calling, a passion, a grand purpose, or a reason for being. A mission in life isn&#8217;t something you force on yourself. It is something you discover within. You are born with it. It is coded in your DNA. It flows in your blood and is written in your heart. It is not something that is separate from you. It is as much a part of you as stripes are a part of a zebra. You cannot get away from it. It eats with you, sleeps with you, and goes wherever you are because it is a part of you.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;Many persons have a wrong idea of what constitutes true happiness. It is not attained through self-gratification but through fidelity to a worthy purpose.&#8221;<br />
</em>- Helen Keller</p>
<p>Once you find your mission your imagination is engaged and you have purpose. You have a reason for getting up in the morning. It fuses your values, beliefs, thoughts and actions into one unified force. It gives you a definition of who you are. Your mission is something that excites you, that drives you. When you are living your mission you look forward to every day. You live life with passion!</p>
<p><em>&#8220;We act as though comfort and luxury were the chief requirements of life, when all that we need to make us happy is something to be enthusiastic about.&#8221;<br />
</em>- Albert Einstein</p>
<p><strong>Where does an overpowering mission come from?</strong></p>
<p>I believe the creation of this world was not a mistake or some grand fluke of nature. It was created for a divine purpose. It was created as a place for God to send His children to learn and to grow and to develop their gifts and talents to their fullest. Each of us were sent here with certain things to learn and certain missions to perform. I believe in a Grand Design for everything.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;I cannot believe that God would choose to play dice with the universe.&#8221;<br />
</em>- Albert Einstein</p>
<p>It is my belief that each of us has been sent to this earth with a divine mission from God and it is one of the main purposes of life to discover it and pursue it.</p>
<p><strong>Do you have an overpowering mission?<br />
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When I was in my late teens I had a good friend named Paul. In fact we roomed together for a while. I liked Paul a lot but there was one thing that really bugged me about him &#8211; he knew and had always known that when he grew up he would be a doctor. It never was a question in his mind. The reason it bugged me was the fact that I had no idea at that time what I wanted to do with my life and he did. It just didn&#8217;t seem fair.</p>
<p>Looking back I can see I had many clues and signs back then. But I didn&#8217;t see them!</p>
<p>Some of us come forth from our mother&#8217;s womb knowing our mission and purpose in life. Others of us, like myself, have a long struggle before the light finally turns on and we see clearly what our overpowering mission in life is.</p>
<p>One of the problems many of us face is that we have suppressed and denied for so long the feelings and yearnings inside us that they no longer come with the power and force they once did.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s like the puppy that follows the little boy home. The boy wants the puppy in a terrible way but knows his mother will never let him have it. So he tells the puppy to go away but of course it doesn&#8217;t. He yells at it but the puppy just keeps happily following him, wagging its little tail. It&#8217;s a persistent little puppy that won&#8217;t go away no matter what the boy tries. Finally, out of frustration the little boy picks up a rock and throws it at the puppy and with a yelp it runs off. It will be a long time before that puppy tries to follow the boy home again.</p>
<p>Too many of us have chased off our dreams and desires for so long that they rarely come back and if they do, they are timid and weak. That doesn&#8217;t mean they aren&#8217;t real and they aren&#8217;t important. They are still there. It just may take some coaxing to get them to come out again.</p>
<p><strong>How do you discover your overpowering mission?</strong></p>
<p><em>&#8220;Know thyself, and to thine own self be true, then thou canst not be false with any man.&#8221;<br />
</em>Shakespeare</p>
<p>There are many books and articles written on this subject. One particular book I own devotes over 150 pages with endless exercises and quizzes to help you discover your mission in life. I believe this type of introspection can be helpful but if it takes 150 pages to get you to find your mission in life, is it really an overpowering mission? I think it is much less complicated than that. There should be some rather large clues in your life and that is where you should look.</p>
<p>My own personal experience may be of some help to you. After I got married I began a career in the computer field. How was that chosen? My wife and my mother-in-law sat me down one day and succeeded in persuading me to go in that direction because there was good money to be made in computers. So for nineteen years of my life and over a million lines of computer code later I realized I didn&#8217;t want to spend the rest of my life doing that. But what then did I really want to do?</p>
<p>I began an earnest undertaking of finding out what I really should be doing with my life. A huge advantage I had was that I have kept a personal journal and have written in it nearly every day for the last 26 years of my life. So I began the rather large task of reviewing my journals from the first to the last. Frankly, I was amazed at what I found. I found over forty-three journal entries where I had expressed a deep desire to teach personal achievement, personal improvement, or personal change. My, how many times did that little dog come after me and I shooed him away or ignored him? Let me share one example from my journal, dated many years ago:</p>
<blockquote><p>I wish I had the time each night to write down all the feelings that I have, but I never seem to have the time. I&#8217;ve been wanting to write about some ideas and aspirations I&#8217;ve been having lately, so here I go.</p>
<p>I like my job and it pays me very well. But sometimes I get the feeling that I have more to contribute in life besides computer programs. I sit at work each day and look at a little saying in front of my desk. It says, &#8216;Find out what you do best, then do it.&#8217; I feel like I&#8217;m a good programmer and I do a good job at it. But I don&#8217;t feel that that is the thing I do best. I truly feel that I have an inborn ability to speak to people, to teach, to motivate, to give presentations to other people. The times when I have had opportunities to do this I have done very well, and most important, I have enjoyed it very much.</p>
<p>But how does one change from being a programmer to someone who teaches, speaks to, and motivates people? And also isn&#8217;t there a little vanity involved here? I mean, who am I to come out and say I can do these things and why do I want to do them? For the glory or recognition? I don&#8217;t want to be like that but how do you avoid it?</p>
<p>Plus what about my poor wife and her feelings and concerns &#8211; especially about family security? Here she thought I was all set and content in a nice career and now I&#8217;m thinking about changing. Is she going to think now that I&#8217;ll never be content at doing anything?</p></blockquote>
<p>So, I shooed the puppy away then and every other time he came romping back into my thoughts. But he always came back. Finally I couldn&#8217;t deny it any longer. I had to pursue this powerful, overmastering desire; this mission in life.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;While goals are chosen, a purpose is discovered. Our purpose is something we have been doing all along, and will continue to do, regardless of circumstances, until the day we die.&#8221;<br />
</em>- Peter McWilliams</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t have a magic formula to give you in finding your life&#8217;s mission. I will say that it may take some deep thought, some making of lists and some review of your life thus far. For some this will be easy. For others it may take some coaxing to get the puppy to come back. Just be patient. You have the rest of your life ahead of you. You want to get it right!</p>
<p><em>&#8220;The secret of man&#8217;s being is not only to live but to have something to live for. Without a stable conception of the object of life, man would not consent to go on living.&#8221;<br />
</em>-The Grand Inquisitor in Dostoyevsky&#8217;s The Brothers Karamazov</p>
<p><strong>It&#8217;s never too late</strong></p>
<p>I have run a number of marathons. Each time I do I am amazed at the number of people who are older than me who not only run marathons but beat me to the finish! I will be running along, thinking I&#8217;m doing well and then a short, stubby, seventy-year old woman passes me up! It&#8217;s incredible! Life does not end when you turn forty, or sixty or even eighty. The history books are filled with people who have accomplished great things in the latter years of their lives.</p>
<p>I have always liked the saying that goes:</p>
<p><em>&#8220;Did you stop doing the things you did when you were young because you are old or are you old because you stopped doing the things you did when you were young?&#8221;</em></p>
<p>Read that again if you have to. I feel there is much to be learned from that statement. I once listened to a tape by the author Dr. Wayne W. Dyer. On the tape he asked a series questions to get you to think about yourself. One of my favorite questions he asked was this, &#8220;If you didn&#8217;t know how old you were, if there was no record of your birth, how old would you be?&#8221; His point was that the idea of how old you are has more to do with your thinking than with your birth certificate.</p>
<p>Many adults have the impression that once they pass a certain age they can never achieve or accomplish much. They feel their opportunities are lost. I say baloney! Every day that you wake up above ground is a day of opportunity!</p>
<p>The person who discovers or resurrects their overpowering mission late in life should not let age or time or circumstances get in their way. No matter how long they may have been delayed from it by mistakes or missteps, they should make a solemn resolve that they will not leave this life without pursuing and accomplishing their dream.</p>
<p><strong>Clues from God</strong></p>
<p>Our passions, longings and desires that arise from our heart are not just vain imaginations or hopeless dreams. They are the pointers, the clues, the guides to our possibilities. They are the prophecies, predictions, and blueprints of what we may become.</p>
<p>The honeybee doesn&#8217;t have an instinct to gather nectar without a real flower to match it; nor has the Creator planted within us yearnings and desires and dreams for a better, fuller, life without the possibility of achieving it. There is a divine reason and purpose behind our genuine desires.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t believe there is anybody anywhere in this world that can be truly happy until they have found their true passion, their true heart&#8217;s desire, their overpowering mission in life and then followed and pursued it to the ends of the earth.</p>
<p>Copyright © 2008 Gary N. Larson</p>
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<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;"><a href="http://larsoninstitute.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/creation.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1116" src="http://larsoninstitute.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/creation.jpg" alt="creation" width="519" height="307" /></a>Author: Scott Ginsberg</span></strong></p>
<p><strong>BE</strong> brilliant at the basics. Be the change you want to see in the world. Be the first one. Be the only one. Be unforgettable. Be interesting. Be a sleeper. Be that guy. Be the world&#8217;s expert on yourself. Be better than yesterday, but not as good as tomorrow. Be confident enough to be humble. But be somebody who reminds everybody of nobody else in the world.</p>
<p><strong>AND DON&#8217;T</strong> wish it was easier, wish you were better. Don&#8217;t sell, enable people to buy. Don&#8217;t let the bastards get you down. Don&#8217;t be weary in well doing, for in due season you will reap a great harvest if you faint not. And don&#8217;t wait for the mainstream to validate your voice. Don&#8217;t despise the day of small beginnings. Don&#8217;t be selfish with your knowledge. Don&#8217;t complain if you haven&#8217;t earned the right. And don&#8217;t be different, be unique.<span id="more-1114"></span></p>
<p><strong>BECAUSE YOU</strong> are what you charge. You are what you believe. You are the books you&#8217;ve read and the people you&#8217;ve met. And you are an empty sheet of paper in the minds of every person you encounter.</p>
<p><strong>AFTER ALL</strong>, the world cannot resist a man on a mission. The best swimmers are always in the pool. The sculpture is inside the stone. And the two greatest days in your life are the day you&#8217;re born, and the day you realize why you were born.</p>
<p><strong>AND</strong> if you are successful you will always have too much to do and too little time. If you aren&#8217;t being criticized, you aren&#8217;t doing much. And if everyone says you&#8217;re out of your mind, you just might be onto something.</p>
<p><strong>EVEN THOUGH</strong>, IT&#8217;S not easy being yourself. It&#8217;s not who you know, it&#8217;s who knows you. And it&#8217;s not the years, it&#8217;s the mileage.</p>
<p><strong>SO, WORK</strong> hard, work long and work smart. Work like you don&#8217;t need the money. And work from technique, because you never know how you will feel.</p>
<p><strong>AND DON&#8217;T FORGET THAT</strong> success leaves clues. That confidence is king. That credibility comes from specificity. That listening is not waiting to talk. And that a nice person who is mean to a waiter is not a nice person.</p>
<p><strong>OR, TO</strong> tell the truth, to tell it all and to tell it now. To give value first. To paint yourself into a good corner. To allow customers to participate in your brand. To do the work once and benefit many times. To give yourself away. To respect people&#8217;s no&#8217;s. To take massive action. And to act as if you already were the person you&#8217;re trying to become.</p>
<p><strong>THEREFORE, ALWAYS</strong> stand up, stand out or be counted out. Discover your Personal Differential Advantage. Learn to love your zone of discomfort. Greet each day with love in your heart. Show, don&#8217;t tell. Make daily appointments with yourself. Never apologize for your art. Remember your Victory Dance. Work harder on yourself than your job. Find your one big idea. And always validate your existence, be yourself and do something cool &#8211; every single day.</p>
<p><strong>BECAUSE</strong> life isn&#8217;t about finding yourself, it&#8217;s about creating yourself.</p>
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<p>Scott Ginsberg is a professional speaker, &#8220;The World&#8217;s Foremost Expert on Nametags&#8221; and the author of <em>HELLO my name is Scott</em> and <em>The Power of Approachability</em>. He helps people MAXIMIZE their approachability and become UNFORGETTABLE communicators &#8211; one conversation at a time. For more information contact Front Porch Productions at <a href="http://www.hellomynameisscott.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_new">http://www.hellomynameisscott.com</a>.</p>
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<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;"><a href="http://larsoninstitute.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/think-positive.png"></a><a href="http://larsoninstitute.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/think-positive1.png"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-989" src="http://larsoninstitute.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/think-positive1.png" alt="think positive" width="576" height="317" /></a>Author &#8211; Susan Meyerott</span></strong></p>
<p>&#8220;Worrying does not empty today of its troubles, it empties tomorrow of its strength.&#8221; Mary Engelbreit</p>
<p><strong>The Secret Decoded</strong></p>
<p>Do you ever wake up with doubts, anxiety or insecurities? I do. It&#8217;s those little whispers in my brain causing my heart to race and my stomach to flutter until I pause to identify &#8216;what&#8217;s up&#8217;.</p>
<p>Over the years I&#8217;ve learned the secret to befriending these physical messages. I&#8217;ve developed a more positive interpretation of the role my brain plays in producing the unsettling messages, and this helps me transition faster from reacting fearfully to taking calm, conscious action. So what&#8217;s the secret? <span id="more-985"></span>It&#8217;s simple. I know my brain cares about me.</p>
<p><strong>A Womb with a View</strong></p>
<p>Because my brain cares, I think of it as my womb with a view&#8211;a warm, caring place from which I can safely look out into the world around me and begin living each day. My womb with a view comes with womb service. The little whispers causing those anxious feelings are just friendly, pre-scheduled wake up calls.</p>
<p>Although the messages from within are initially unnerving, they become my call to action. I now embrace the friendly service call to &#8216;wake up!&#8217; and make a conscious choice to do something, or to do nothing and let it be. By converting my anxiety into womb service, I have re-framed those morning whispers from &#8216;start-your-day-anxious and in avoidance&#8217; to &#8216;start-your-day-calm-and-conscious&#8217;.</p>
<p><strong>Everything Is (Secretly) Okay!</strong></p>
<p>My lifelong friend, Karen, is a very successful CEO Coach who has lived life fully engaged. She is amazing. She is also a worrier and full of self-doubt. During our last visit together, Karen&#8217;s husband, Bill, shared an affirmation he began whispering into Karen&#8217;s ear: &#8220;Karen, Everything is (Secretly) Okay!&#8221; It made me laugh!</p>
<p>I couldn&#8217;t believe what a perfect message this was&#8211;not only for Karen, but for all of us. It made Karen laugh and let go, and it spoke to a deep truth about the foundation of worries, self-doubt and anxiety in us all.</p>
<p><strong>Learn What You Do Want from What You Don&#8217;t</strong></p>
<p>Our worries, anxieties and fears are always about things we don&#8217;t want to happen. If you can identify what you don&#8217;t want to happen, you can turn it around to identify what you do want and work to make it happen.</p>
<p>When that secret worry begins to tie your stomach in knots, let it wake you up to what&#8217;s bothering you and name what you fear. Begin by affirming &#8216;everything is (secretly) okay!&#8217;, and then ask these three questions:</p>
<p>What is it about the message behind my womb service I fear?<br />
What do I fear will happen that I don&#8217;t want to happen?<br />
What do I want to happen?</p>
<p><strong>Hello, Womb Service?</strong></p>
<p>You have one new message from your brain: &#8220;Everything is (Secretly) Okay!&#8221; Wake up to the possibilities. Wake up to new beginnings.</p>
<p>&#8220;Worrying is using your imagination to create something you don&#8217;t want.&#8221; Abraham</p>
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<a href="http://lightartedliving.blogspot.com/" target="_new">http://lightartedliving.blogspot.com/</a><br />
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		<title>11 Commandments of a Jedi Master</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 May 2011 09:31:54 +0000</pubDate>
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<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000"><a href="http://larsoninstitute.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/jedi.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1123" src="http://larsoninstitute.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/jedi.jpg" alt="jedi" width="494" height="370" /></a>Author: Jim Francis<br />
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<p><strong>Dream Big</strong>. All the millionaires I interview have big dreams. They believe that they are worth more than a 9-to-5 job and that there is more to life than working forty (or more) hours a week for forty years only to take a forty percent pay cut once they&#8217;ve reach retirement. These big dreamers are also prepared to risk money and time ( reasonable risk) and just go for it. A number of them have even risked the farm a few times. Now don&#8217;t get me wrong; I&#8217;m not asking you to do this, and I&#8217;m not asking you to put all your eggs in one basket and hope. However, you may consider taking a few of those hard-earned bucks and trying something new, maybe just part-time at first. Try building a small business, optioning a stock, or flipping some real estate for cash. You never know, I might be interviewing you next!</p>
<p><strong>Get Out of your Comfort Zone</strong>. We all operate within a comfort zone, a specific way of living that we have become used to over time. Unfortunately, these comfort zones often hold us back from what we really want. For years, I believed I was worth about $50,000 a year, and during this time, $50,000 is what I was paid. I didn&#8217;t know any better, so I kept working for another person and making less than I deserved. Then, I experienced an awakening and came to believe I was worth $250K a year. I quit my job and started my own business. <span id="more-1120"></span>Well, I did not hit the $250K that first year &#8211; but I did earn $245K that year! You must attack your comfort zone. You must get outside of it; push yourself to do things that you don&#8217;t like; push yourself to try new things; push your-self to break your poor habits and to discard your limiting beliefs. Push yourself past FEAR! All successful people ac-knowledge the undiscovered planet, the realm of the unknown and unfamiliar. Now, it&#8217;s your turn to join the ranks of these successful people.</p>
<p><strong>Work Smart</strong>, not Hard. Millionaires tend to work smarter, not harder. Don&#8217;t get me wrong; they are still prone to working 16-hour days, but they use their time much more effectively than others. They have a better plan for making money and a better plan for cashing in on their labor. And if they are going to work a sixteen hour day, they want to reap the fruit of their labor personally. Their time is worth way too much to waste on making money for someone else. Here are some intelligent strategies: Invest in real estate. Own a small business. Let your money make money. Invest in stocks. Manage, but do not do. Be unique in the marketplace. Find models and mentors who are successful, and pattern yourself after them. Trade money for time, not time for money!</p>
<p>The Quick and the Dead. One of the major rules for successful people is &#8220;Take Action!&#8221; While you are sitting their thinking, someone else is taking action. People are starting a new business, taking control of their credit, starting online companies, buying new homes or investing in property, cutting their taxes by 50%. Stop analyzing things to death and make a judgment. It&#8217;s time to take fast action.</p>
<p><strong>Take Emotions out of Decisions</strong>. Confront FEAR! In our culture, we are taught to weigh both sides of a decision. For the most part, that&#8217;s good advice. It only becomes a problem once people get caught up in the weighing. They spend all their time searching for one more piece of information. They review it to death &#8211; &#8220;Should we? Shouldn&#8217;t we?&#8221; By the time they make a decision, the opportunity is gone. For most people, there is only one reason why they miss opportunities &#8211; FEAR! You might experience fear of loss, fear of failure, or maybe fear of rejection. This fear is holding you back. It is costing you financially and emotionally. In contrast with this mentality, millionaires learn to conquer their fears, to push past them and concentrate on three simple things: first, the investment; second, the return; third, the probability of success. If an investment offers a good return, go for it! Even when you are petrified with fear, you just need to take that first step forward.</p>
<p><strong>Total Commitment</strong> Successful people give everything that they have and never say the words, &#8220;I tried.&#8221; Either they get the result they are looking for or they don&#8217;t. They never hold back on a project. It keeps them up late and gets them up early. They work their regular jobs for 40 hours a week and then put in another 20 hours buying real estate or starting a small business-even when they&#8217;re tired. Let it not be said of you when you are old and gray that you &#8220;missed your dreams because you were watching TV.&#8221; All that you need to do is schedule some time for success. This can be as little as eight hours a week to start, Maybe, every Saturday morning or Mon-day night (Well, maybe Tuesday night during football season). Schedule the time and the results will follow.</p>
<p><strong>Mentors</strong>. Mentors are worth their weight in gold. Take my word for it; this has been proven time and time again! Mentors will teach you things that you could never learn from a book, a self-study manual, a video, or a website. When I first learned to golf, I already had experience playing hockey, but I found that swinging a golf club as if it was a hockey stick resulted in a terrible slice to the right. I bought every magazine, book, and video on golfing to correct the problem. I was cheap and didn&#8217;t want to spend the money for lessons. After much strife, I decided that I was not the problem &#8211; it was the clubs! So, I bought new clubs (Fire sticks). Alas, those new clubs merely helped me drive the ball deeper into the trees. Finally, I broke down and bought some lessons and in the very first lesson the problem was corrected! Immediate feedback, a coach, or a mentor can get you on the path to success quickly.</p>
<p><strong>Student of Success</strong>. Millionaires never stop learning. They continually study success. They study money, real estate, business, and asset-building. They have a thirst for new knowledge and they are the first to buy tapes, books, and manuals, or to seek further training. Several years ago, I documented purchases of over $81,000 for seminars, training, and self-study materials to improve my education. I couldn&#8217;t have gotten to where I am now without this. Continuing education is a key to my success and to that of countless others as well. Invest in yourself first!</p>
<p><strong>Bounce Back Well</strong>. Millionaires are by no means exempt from failures. They have losses, but they keep a positive attitude. They tell themselves, &#8220;I will get them next time. I just have to work a little harder or smarter to get a better result.&#8221; They know that all they need is a better plan and they remember that a flat ball doesn&#8217;t bounce &#8211; so they keep it pumped up.</p>
<p><strong>Selective Memory</strong>. There are no failures, only learning experiences. When successful people swing at a baseball, they do not remember the 66% of the time they miss; they remember the 34% of the time they get hits. They hold their success close and let go of their failures. The problem for most people is that they refuse to forget the last time they failed. It&#8217;s no wonder they stop swinging the bat. Selective memory is a key to success.</p>
<p><strong>Don&#8217;t Quit</strong>. The character of men and women is not measured in the number of their failures but in the number of times they shake off those failures and try again. Ask Sylvester Stallone whose screenplay for Rocky was rejected over 300 times! Ask Edison who made more than 10,000 (no, that&#8217;s not a typo &#8211; TEN THOUSAND) attempts to invent the light bulb. Ask Lincoln who experienced failure a dozen times as he strove to acquire a political office. Success is just a decision and one step away! Never give up, and you will stay on the path to prosperity.</p>
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		<title>The Power of Subconscious Mind: Let It Take Over You</title>
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<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000"><a href="http://larsoninstitute.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/subconscious.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-995" src="http://larsoninstitute.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/subconscious.jpg" alt="subconscious" width="300" height="400" /></a>Author &#8211; Asim Bawany</span></strong></p>
<p>&#8220;We must realize that the subconscious mind is the law of action and always expresses what the conscious mind has impressed on it. What we regularly entertain in our mind creates a conception of self. What we conceive ourselves to be, we become.&#8221; &#8211; Grace Speare</p>
<p>&#8220;The unconscious mind of man sees correctly even when conscious reason is blind and impotent.&#8221; &#8211; Carl Jung</p>
<p>&#8220;Every person is the creation of himself, the image of his own thinking and believing. As individuals think and believe, so they are.&#8221; &#8211; Claude M. Bristol</p>
<p>The human mind is more profound than what we have imagined. The power of subconscious mind can bring us to the equilibrium that we have envisioned. Do you ever wonder how unfair life is to some and how impossibly good life is to others? <span id="more-992"></span>We see many people work as hard as they can but they seem to be stuck in one step of the ladder and never able to reach the top. Meanwhile, there are others who did not even sweat a single drop but reached their aspirations. These examples are not that much of a shock. But you have also met people who are not that much of a good friend to others, yet have been given many opportunities in life. There are also those people who are the kindest in the world yet receive fewer chances in life.</p>
<p>Success in life comes from more than just mere positive thinking. Even positive thinking itself is not enough evidence of pure mindset positivity. The power of the subconscious is way beyond positive thinking&#8230; It is believing. The reason why it can bring you to success is that the subconscious part of the brain can enable you to aspire, believe that aspiration, and eventually allowing your &#8220;believing&#8221; makes your aspiration come true. To give you better understanding regarding this matter, let me simplify to you the steps on how to put the power of your subconscious to action:</p>
<p>1. Believe</p>
<p>This is the foundation of what the actions that the power of your subconscious mind can do. Let there be coordination between you and your subconscious mind. Allow yourself to cooperate with your subconscious mind. When your subconscious mind tells you to succeed, try hard to go with it. This way, you desire, and you believe your desire.</p>
<p>2. Mold your mind</p>
<p>Mold your mind to believe what you want to happen. Make it a habit. This way, you are practicing your subconscious mind to continue working. Also, this way your subconscious would be in control.</p>
<p>3. Try to increase the power of your mind</p>
<p>Increasing the power of your mind will allow you to be controlled by your subconscious mind. How can you do that? There are many ways to increase the power of your subconscious mind, or your mind alone. Problem solving is one example. Solve problems while you are not under any pressure. Just allow yourself to think. One example of problem solving is answering your own questions. Think beyond the usual rationality of man. Think deep and imaginative thoughts. Expand your level of reasoning. Both thinking and feeling are all fruits of the mind. We are how we think we are. The subconscious mind tells us what to do, but the conscious mind might contradict it.</p>
<p>Bring your subconscious mind to life and you&#8217;ll be able to keep track of your life. It is hard to do it sometimes. But if you allow the power of your subconscious mind to train your conscious mind, there would be nothing impossible to achieve.</p>
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