Comments on: The Universal Law of Human Behavior http://larsoninstitute.com/2008/10/31/the-universal-law-of-human-behavior/ Master Your Mind, Body, Money and Relationships Sun, 20 Dec 2009 05:43:41 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: Garold N. Larson http://larsoninstitute.com/2008/10/31/the-universal-law-of-human-behavior/comment-page-1/#comment-393 Garold N. Larson Fri, 31 Oct 2008 17:48:04 +0000 http://selfmasterykeys.com/blog/2008/01/the-universal-law-of-human-behavior#comment-393 Yvonne, thank you for your comment. You are right about the possibility of using compliments and kindness in a manipulative way. We have to be careful of our motives and intent. In the case of this lady, I didn't detect any insincerity at all. It felt very genuine. If that was manipulation I wouldn't mind being manipulated like that more often! Have a great day. Yvonne, thank you for your comment. You are right about the possibility of using compliments and kindness in a manipulative way. We have to be careful of our motives and intent. In the case of this lady, I didn’t detect any insincerity at all. It felt very genuine. If that was manipulation I wouldn’t mind being manipulated like that more often!

Have a great day.

]]> By: Yvonne Mahoney http://larsoninstitute.com/2008/10/31/the-universal-law-of-human-behavior/comment-page-1/#comment-394 Yvonne Mahoney Fri, 31 Oct 2008 17:30:36 +0000 http://selfmasterykeys.com/blog/2008/01/the-universal-law-of-human-behavior#comment-394 Thank you for reminding me of the power of kindness. And that isn't only what you say but also what you do. Point taken though that offering others sincere compliments can do wonders to their responsiveness to you. I thought for a moment you were going to talk about this lady's insincerity in order to get you to give her superior service for it can be used manipulatively also. I'm just delighted that it worked for you to be able to remember it years later. Thank you for reminding me of the power of kindness. And that isn’t only what you say but also what you do. Point taken though that offering others sincere compliments can do wonders to their responsiveness to you. I thought for a moment you were going to talk about this lady’s insincerity in order to get you to give her superior service for it can be used manipulatively also. I’m just delighted that it worked for you to be able to remember it years later.

]]> By: Garold N. Larson http://larsoninstitute.com/2008/10/31/the-universal-law-of-human-behavior/comment-page-1/#comment-392 Garold N. Larson Fri, 31 Oct 2008 15:51:39 +0000 http://selfmasterykeys.com/blog/2008/01/the-universal-law-of-human-behavior#comment-392 Yes it does matter more than we think. Think about the people you like to be around. They are the ones interested in you and paying attention to you. You can do the same for others. Yes it does matter more than we think. Think about the people you like to be around. They are the ones interested in you and paying attention to you. You can do the same for others.

]]> By: Erika http://larsoninstitute.com/2008/10/31/the-universal-law-of-human-behavior/comment-page-1/#comment-391 Erika Fri, 31 Oct 2008 15:47:58 +0000 http://selfmasterykeys.com/blog/2008/01/the-universal-law-of-human-behavior#comment-391 Yeah it's amazing what a compliment will do! Like when I worked at the library, sometimes the days where I felt the most unattractive (like when I was pregnant) someone would tell me I looked good or whatever and it would totally change my day. It really made me think that when I notice something positive about someone, to just say it, because you assume it doesn't matter but it matters to me so it probably matters to others. Yeah it’s amazing what a compliment will do! Like when I worked at the library, sometimes the days where I felt the most unattractive (like when I was pregnant) someone would tell me I looked good or whatever and it would totally change my day. It really made me think that when I notice something positive about someone, to just say it, because you assume it doesn’t matter but it matters to me so it probably matters to others.

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